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日前到亞洲旅行,受邀參加一場高爾夫球聚。我非常幸運地沾了主辦人的光,被安排與數十年前被視為「亞洲高球之寶」的呂良煥先生同組打球。
呂良煥先生當年是少數國際知名的亞洲高爾夫球職業選手,經常參與最高檔的國際大賽與PGA職業賽。除了多次取得佳績之外,更因為他在球場上的風範與禮儀、謙虛與客氣,特別受到亞洲及歐美媒體注目。
直到今天我還記得,他經常帶著一頂爵士帽,觀眾鼓掌後,他都會真誠微笑脫帽致敬。這個一再出現的動作與那頂帽子,後來幾乎成了他的註冊商標。
向大師請益
我個人只是個高爾夫球愛好者,打了很多年,雖偶有佳績,但總覺得好像永遠是初學者,進步困難。我們尊稱呂先生為呂老師,當天我就一路上向他學習請益,並且仔細觀察。
呂老師今年70,仍然全程健步如飛,談笑風生,而且打起球來輕鬆自如,又直又遠,談笑間強虜灰飛煙滅。相反的,相對年輕的我費盡吃奶之力,腰臂幾乎扭傷,還打得沒有呂老師一半的距離與準確度。
毫無疑問的,呂老師的球技是苦練出來的。不知多少血汗、多少奮鬥,才換來一身本領與眾人的景仰。呂老師指點我時,點出的幾項最基本原則,遠比苦練與奮鬥更重要,而且完全可以應用到生活與工作之上。
呂老師首先就指出我打球太緊張,握桿握得太緊,以致全身緊繃,根本無法順暢完整揮桿。
聽了呂老師的指點,我開始刻意放鬆握桿,放慢轉速,居然接連地打了好幾桿經典之作,又長又遠。
原來所有的書本教材都是對的。想要將球打直打遠,握桿要像輕擠牙膏那樣,用三分力握就好,否則整根牙膏會被擠爛掉。或者像握住一隻小鳥般地輕柔,握得太緊,小鳥就會被掐死。
適度放輕鬆
手適度放輕鬆,球桿的長度與角度才有機會自然發揮功能。手握得太緊,反而破壞了球桿原本設計時就擁有的潛能。適度用力揮桿,絕對比死命握緊大力揮桿,成績要好得多。這是經過千萬人證實的。
這也就是「做自己的生活大師」十大進階的第一步,先練習對自己好一點,輕鬆一點,先別把自己掐死逼死,輕鬆地把握自己,給自己多一些空間游走發揮,會遠比拚命刻意地塑造自己更好。
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